Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Thoughts on Hair Loss
Our Lovely Valley Will Rise Again
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Everybody's okay although the houses (nanay's and mom's) were both flooded and most of their things were damaged. My apartment in Mandaluyong was not affected although we were traveling to and from Laguna this weekend so we had to brave through floods as well. Dad's Tita Fely's burial was on Saturday morning and he was caught in the flood and horrible traffic along EDSA going home. He decided to walk home from that point (water was chest deep in some areas). He reached Marikina late Saturday night. Everybody, including the family of Brenda's kuya, was on the second floor of Nanay's house. Chipi was forced to wade through waist-deep water because they stayed inside even when water entered the house, expecting the flood to stop rising before it reached the bed. Nobody was expecting the rainfall to be that much (more than 30 days worth in under 6 hours) and we were all caught off guard. The last time the house was flooded, and never with water that high, was back in the '80s before BF fixed the city drainage and put up river and creek walls. Mark and his brother went over there to deliver water and food (their supplies were low) after we got back from Laguna Sunday evening. Chip and Jaymee are staying with us while the others continue cleanup in Marikina. The flood is gone but it left thick mud from the mountains on everything. The water outside submerged the gate while inside it rose until just above the waist. Power is still out making cleanup extra difficult... They basically need flashlights and lots of candles because there's no power... Our church members are all fine although many of them lost all of their possessions to the flood.
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I wish Husband could take time off work so we could help with the cleanup at my parents' place. It's really slow going. With Chip sick, the ones left working there are my 62-yr-old father, my 58-yr-old mother, and Lala, their helper. The power is still out. My mom, who's very sentimental, is just so heartbroken with all the damage (my grandparents' antique china, a set from their wedding, photo albums, special gifts and letters, etc.). She just reminds herself that they did not lose all of their possessions, and more importantly, we didn't lose any of our relatives, friends, and churchmates.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Intelligent Marketing
Businesses should be equipped with a comprehensive and updated (I’m thinking of my now deceased grandparents still being hounded by telemarketers) National Consumer file. This way they do not waste not only their time, but also our time, with calls that were doomed to be cold in the first place. Consumer Leads should come from a multi-sourced file that will help marketers to zero in on interested customers. Really useful and helpful commercial leads, such as those provided by Endless Resources, are usually hard to obtain. They are, however, very necessary. It is best if a business’ efforts are used intelligently towards steps that would elicit results.
Monday, September 28, 2009
Climate Change Is Certainly Very Real
I think for the first time in... well, ever, our church didn't hold the Sunday Service. All of our church members are fine although some had to be evacuated from their homes. Many of us had their houses flooded, my parents included. They're fine, but the entire house is muddy. Many of the appliances are goners. Many of the clothes (we actually still have some there) had been submerged in the water. Now, it's time for cleanup, but, of course, the washing machines are probably busted. I want to go there and help clean up, but one of Mark's clients is insisting on a meeting (um, hello, we're under a state of calamity?). I mean, if Congress suspended its session so the affected solons can clean up their houses (I heard that on the radio on our way home yesterday and that did not sit well with me at all... I thought the radio announcer was going to say so they could devote their time to assisting their constituents, but no, the suspension was for their own personal houses which were probably going to be cleaned by their legions of househelp anyway), why can't the normal person be expected to do the same? Talk about insensitivity and lack of consideration. Our apartment is fine, but we would like to help my folks out. This is some serious cleaning they're facing. The power is still out over there, probably for safety reasons. Mud from the mountains (oh, to live in a valley, no matter how beautiful - whatever. I still love Marikina! It's a town my own forebears helped build. It's part of my identity.) is all over everything. It's not your usual flood filth and yuck. It's thick clay. And then, of course, most of their things have been damaged. Transitioning back to normal takes time. How can some people act as though nothing but a simple drizzle happened? Whatever. (Husband will go to your dumb meeting. Hopefully, you'll realize that you can be a scumbag. - okay, that's it. I promise no more namecalling during this difficult time.)
We took the SLEX route on our way back since Rizal was still pretty much flooded. Husband found it in his heart to be a proper tourist and bought lanzones and kesong puti from roadside stalls. We passed through such interesting towns. Normally, we would have stopped and checked them out, but since times were thus, we'll have to do it another time. I believe we're going back at the end of October. Maybe then. In the interim, prayers and active participation in efforts to restore things to normal. Btw, we learned on our way home that a couple of those soldiers from the closed off bridge went missing during rescue efforts. One private at that time had been found dead, but they said that before he succumbed to the waters, he had already been able to save the lives of 20 individuals. That's a true soldier and hero right there.
A Site for the Fashionable
The true fashion buffs know which brands are truly iconic and worth investing on. They know that Kate Spade makes shoes that will make other women green with envy. They are familiar with Michael Kors’ work outside of his Project Runway critiques and they know that Kors comes up with gorgeous footwear. They have boundless energy when it comes to shopping and hunting down great deals. Their feet, probably shod in something signature, have some sort of detector that leads them to just the right shops.
In this age of amazing technology, shopping has been brought to a whole new level. The nose that can scent in the air stores of great quality can also scent shopping sites that offer amazing items and are trustworthy to boot through the internet. Women can go shopping for their favorite brands without even leaving their home.
Friday, September 25, 2009
I'd Say That Looks Happy
Naturally, I had to record the moment via video and voilà. She's using her left hand here to draw, but Marguerite is still very much ambidextrous. I'm hoping the trait will stay. :) She's also saying something here that sounds like snowcone. I think it has something to do with "Cars" the movie, but since I have yet to see it, I can't be sure.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
A Fishy Birthday Treat
The Ocean Park was fun, but I suppose I was expecting it to be like Sea World. They say it's more like Singapore's Sentosa, but since I haven't been there, I wouldn't be able to tell. Anyway, Marguerite enjoyed herself. We were smart to go late in the afternoon so most of the field trip groups were already gone. I think the place will continue to get bigger and better developed, but for now it's really mostly just an aquarium.
Here are some pictures of Marguerite, not really of the place, lol:
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manila ocean park |
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Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Still Going On About Having a 3-yr-old
I still don't have much time to blog. With articles to write, homeschooling, art projects, household stuff... I'm pretty exhausted. Anyway, Marguerite seems to have enjoyed her birthday immensely. Many of our efforts have been big hits with her, so that's something we're very glad about. She received some early gifts last Sunday, but a big chunk of the celebration will be happening on Sunday. Chloe gave her a darling charm bracelet, which Marguerite absolutely loves. Her Aunt Cheska (aka Tita Patch) gave her a lovely matching crocheted dress and hat (they're in the album). Basically, this is what Marguerite woke up to yesterday:
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Marguerite's 3rd Birthday |
Btw, last Sunday after service, the kids wanted to have their picture taken with Chip (although that's really the 3rd consecutive Sunday she attended). This is it (I look fat and high). If you're wondering, there's nothing wrong with Marguerite. That's actually Chip's wheelchair. The kids take turns riding it.
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Happy 3rd Birthday to Our Lovely Girl

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Saturday, September 19, 2009
What the Girls in St. Scho Were Singing 20 Years Ago
Anyway, here's the audition video. Lea's so young and cute here, 17 or 18, I think:
Friday, September 18, 2009
The Nose Knows: Matters of the Sun
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Bacolod Pics
Here are a few I like:
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And the rest are here:
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What Are Your People Up To?
Monday, September 14, 2009
Sunday, September 13, 2009
When 7 Is a Bad Number (A Post About BPA)
One of the episodes I got to watch while I was in Bacolod (it takes a trip to Bacolod for me to get to watch the Lifestyle Network, lol - our cable provider doesn't include it, although we do have Discovery Travel and Living) had something to do with the immune system and the hazards that could attack it. That's how I learned about BPA (Bisphenol A - a compound that's been suspected of being hazardous to humans since the '30s). I've heard about BPA before, but I didn't really understand how that worked and which types of plastic to avoid. Anyway, Dr. Stork (The Bachelor guy) repeatedly reminded the audience to look out for the #7 at the bottom of plastic bottles (it's the one within the recycle symbol). If it's there, then the bottle would have been made with BPA. I don't think they mentioned about Type 3, but PVC bottles may also contain BPA. Anyway, I quickly found the plastic bottles we had with us. I was relieved to find that the baby products didn't contain BPA, but when I checked the two Lock & Lock bottles we used for drinking water, there was the #7. :(
The moral of this post, I suppose, is to look for the BPA indicator under your own stuff and just pick BPA-free plastic containers the next time you shop.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
This Week's Revertigo: MacGyver
Anyway, got to watch a lot of Martha Stewart and TheDrs in our hotel room. Somehow, I always just managed to catch MacGyver as it was about to end (my uncle observed that when MacGyver got this dumb duh look, that meant that the screen would freeze right there and the credits would start to roll). MacGyver, that really brought me back. Too bad (or fortunately, depending on how you look at it) we don't get the FX channel at home or I'd be "following" the show again (how weird that I recently saw the guy who played the seemingly indestructible and immortal Murdoc on - shush - TMZ, hehe). My Mom had a crush on MacGyver, btw, and there were all sorts of stupid jokes about his name back then (and for that matter, his first name was Angus and not Menemis). I first saw the following people on episodes of MacGyver: Teri Hatcher (of course), Mayim Bialik (she was the kid who studied in an international school in Switzerland?), Mila Kunis (she was the kid who could mess with jetplanes via her computer?)... Also, I'm against the use of guns because of MacGyver. That's plain influence right there. I'm probably in the right, but I can't give a good argument. I just say, "MacGyver didn't believe in using guns."
If you're nostalgic about MacGyver too, here are a trivia quiz and a video:
Keeping the Home
Some of these details are fun to engage in, of course. For instance, I like browsing through bathroom organization and storage items. There are simply so many cute things. For an unlimited inventory, ShopWiki.com is the site to check out. It really includes everything for sale on the Web and not just ones that had paid for placement.
Keeping the house clean is something that I’m, in fact, struggling with. I clean, but probably not up to what my standards used to be when somebody else was doing the cleaning for me. Of course, it would be easier with all the conveniences, hence the novel interest in shopping for items such as the ones used for cleaning and organization. It might feel a little bit industrial, albeit its fascination, but it’s got to be done. Humidifiers, vacuum cleaners, deep carpet cleaners, steam cleaners, and other houseware and home maintenance stuff are just some of the things in a previously uncovered territory I now consider checking out.
Monday, September 7, 2009
Off to Bacolod and Week 6 Drops
In the interim, I'd like to thank all those who dropped their cards here last week. The following are the top droppers from August 30 - Sept. 5:








Saturday, September 5, 2009
The IAU Is Whack, Do I Hear an Amen? XD
Poor Clyde Tombaugh’s spinning in his grave, he’s losing his dearest friend
‘Cause of the position of its barycenter, Pluto’s life approaches its end
It’s broader than the moon, dope is a typhoon
Circling the sun in autumn, winter, spring and June
9th from the epicenter, methane clouds its only weather
Pluto’s gonna rise once again
Bring my Pluto back, the IAU is straight up whack
Bring sweet Pluto home from out beyond Neptune alone
Bring my Pluto back, the IAU is straight up whack
Bring sweet Pluto home from out beyond Neptune alone
Tried to put my boy in any other class
Ceres and Aries couldn’t match him
He sits below the Kuiper Belt
you don’t wanna know the schemes he’s hatchin
Bring my Pluto back, the IAU is straight up whack
Bring sweet Pluto home from out beyond Neptune alone
Bring my Pluto back, the IAU is straight up whack
Bring sweet Pluto home from out beyond Neptune alone
Named for a god, contains all fertile sod
The perception of smooth terrain is only a façade
Put it in ... Charon
Cruel like an evil baron
Knocked down by the rules and laws of men
Pluto’s gonna rise once again
Bring my Pluto back, the IAU is straight up whack
Bring sweet Pluto home from out beyond Neptune alone
Bring my Pluto back, the IAU is straight up whack
Bring sweet Pluto home from out beyond Neptune alone
Bring my Pluto back, bring my Pluto back
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Remaining Gentle
What Triggers Your Anger?
Family life is complicated and unpredictable. Day-to-day expectations and responsibilities can create angry emotions in both parents and children. No matter how skilled you are at parenting, no matter how wonderful your children are, you cannot eliminate or avoid the unpleasant situations that occur in all families. However, once you understand where the anger comes from you can modify the situation and learn ways to control your reactions, so that anger can occupy a smaller place in your home.
Our children bring us incredible joy. Yet, there are times that they can bring out the anger in us. It is helpful to identify the things that provoke your anger so you can make positive changes in your household.
What sets you off?
Most parents get angry over issues that are insignificant in the grand scheme of life, yet happen on such a regular basis that they become blown out of proportion. Some of the most common parenting issues that trigger anger are whining, temper tantrums, sibling bickering, and non-cooperation. Determine which behaviors most bother you and set about making a plan to correct each problem that sets off your anger.
Notice your hot spots
In addition to triggers, there are “hot spots” in the day when anger more easily rises to the surface. These are typically times when family members are tired, hungry or stressed. These emotions leave us more vulnerable to anger. This can happen in the early morning, before naptime, before meals, or at bedtime. You may also encounter situations when misbehavior increases, and so does your anger: grocery shopping, playdates, or family visits, for example.
Set a plan
Determine if there are things you can do differently to ward off some of the issues that spark your anger. For example, if the morning rush brings stress, you can prepare things the night before: set out clothing, pack lunches, collect shoes. Then create a “morning poster” that outlines the daily routine step-by-step.
If you find that tempers are shorter in the hour before dinner, set out healthy appetizers, enlist the kids’ help in preparing dinner, get the kids involved in a craft activity, or plan an earlier meal time.
Doing things the way you’ve always done them and expecting different results only leaves you frustrated and angry. Instead, identify your anger triggers and take action to change things for the better.
Learn something new
Once you’ve identified a problem, consider several options for solving it. Jot down possible alternatives on paper, or talk it over with another adult. Read through a few parenting books and check the indexes for your topic. Visit an online parenting chat group or posting board. There’s no reason for you to make decisions in a vacuum - I guarantee that the problems you are dealing with are common and there are lots of sources for solutions.
Be flexible
Anger is not something that can be dealt with once and then will go away. Your children grow and change, and new issues appear. From time to time take a fresh look at the issues that create negative emotions in your family and take action to change things for the better.
Let love help
And, finally, at times of anger, hold on to the feeling of love that is the foundation of your relationship with your child. Take time every day to bask in the joy of being a parent. Take time to play, talk and listen. Hug, kiss and cuddle your child often. When you build up this foundation of positive love and emotions you will find yourself less likely to experience intense anger.
Finding Cars
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
This Week's Revertigo: Hi C and Alyssa Milano
From Coke (btw, found the Lilet/Tomorrow's People commercial I couldn't find before), we're going to revisit another favorite drink from childhood: Hi C.
I loved those Hi C commercials because they always had an oldies song as a jingle. The ones I remember in particular are Hi C Pear (Neil Sedaka's "Breaking Up Is Hard to Do") and Hi C Strawberry(?) (Puppy Love - And they call it Hi C love...). Couldn't find those, of course, but found these and I remembered them as soon as I watched them. However, back in the day, I didn't know that Alyssa Milano was in them.
Alyssa Milano. I was 13 or 14 and had a 16 (or was it Tiger Beat?) that featured her and I saw she had five studs on one ear and wanted to copy that, but my Dad wouldn't let me.
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
August Top Droppers









